4 years old is such a great age to be mystified by the holidays! Lo was really into Halloween this year. She was both intrigued with the costumes, decorations and the "Trick or Treat" ritual and disturbed by some of the images she saw. Halloween is a difficult time of year to remain consistent with the Waldorf philosophy of providing our children with an environment of beauty and safety. Sometimes starting as early as the end of summer, everywhere you go there is the gratuitous explosion of Halloweenism. A simple trip to the grocery can be a scary experience for a small child. Giant mummies that burst to sudden electronic life, laughing skulls with blinking red eyes, werewolves, dismembered hands, frightening canned “Halloween “ noises(Lo totally freaked out every time this commercial with creepy music came on the radio)-enough to implant some pretty scary imagery into a child’s brain and haunt them when the lights are turned out at night. I've tried to keep her sheltered from the onslaught. Lo delighted in the more innocent aspects of trick or treating, the other little kids who were out there before it got too dark, the friendly faced Jack-o-Lanterns, the kind people dolling out candy -and she’s still little enough to enjoy yelling “Trick or Treat” when the doors open-the older kids just stand there…..weird. She was also notably more freaked out about some of the sights and sounds this year. It didn't really seem to phase her in the past.
When Dea was small, we would take her to the Anchorage Halloween Symphony Concert on Halloween night. The symphony would play well known classical pieces to coincide with goofy Halloween skits on stage! Later, the 3 floors making up the concert hall would be set up with tables sponsored by various local business and companies(free advertising and capitalism at it’s finest!)so that the children could trick or treat from table to table. It was a fun but expensive evening. A little cultural exposure and a huge bag of candy to boot. Once, we tried Trick or Treat Town(Pretty much the same deal as the symphony, sans the symphony)…but so did the rest of the town. It took 10 minutes of waiting just to get a piece of candy thrown in her pumpkin at each station. Kids + candy+ “waiting”= TEMPEST.
We lasted for about an hour before everyone got cold and we headed to the O’s warm home for dessert.